You might be surprised. Many people assume that today’s young people of the world are primarily interested in money, cars, sensual pleasures, and drugs.

However, in a survey of over 1,200 American young people between the ages of 13 and 24, a series of 100 questions were asked. The answers revealed somewhat different results than the pollsters expected.

When the young people were asked what made them happy, the top response was: Spending time with family. Almost no one said money was the main key to happiness, although around half said that it could be a contributing factor. Those over 18 did not view a physical boy-girl relationship as leading to more happiness in general, although most of the young people did want to get married eventually and have children some day.

Nearly half said that religion was important and more than half acknowledged that God could influence things to make them happier. Many also believed that being part of a religious group makes people happier.

Regarding school: Most of those in school said it made them happy. When asked who their hero was, almost half named one or both of their parents.

Those between 13 and 17 found school to be their biggest source of stress, and for those over 18 it was employment and finances. Those who indulged in alcohol and/or drugs were found to be less happy than those who did not, disproving the myth that the party life brings happiness.

Parents should especially remember the first point: Regardless of appearances, yes - it is true - your teens and young adults want to be with you much more than you may realize. And deep down, their values are not all that different from yours.